Advertise yourself actively to a woman. Dont give up too early. Even after a long series of refusals, things can change. But always be aware of rule #1: The last “No” is always up to the woman.

Define yourself as a “successfull flirt” in a new way. Treat it as a chance to gain new experiences. DonÂ’t let yourself be let down by a refusal from single women. See a “No” as a “useful experience,” “normal barrier” or just another step toward the finish. Assume that it will save you from a series of further disappointments.

When you do hear a “no” shrug it off and definitely donÂ’t think anything to yourself such as “Things never work out for me.” Instead, develop new and helpful ways to view these situations. Consider, for example, if maybe the woman just had a “bad day”. Perhaps, her refusal will only make your day better by keeping you open to new possibilities further along in your day.

Think of approaching a woman as if you were a salesman and youÂ’re “selling yourself”. Make a “number game” out of it and treat the facts as if you were a businessman: LIke you, a salesman will likely have to do several sales pitches before he obtains a successful sale. Think of the “big picture” – the more you try, the better your chances are of succeeding.

DonÂ’t put all your eggs in one basket. Flirt with several women. So, in the case of a refusal you avoid the danger of losing all potential women at once. Also, youÂ’re sparing yourself unnecessary nervousness. ItÂ’s better to act outside of your feelings so that in any given case you risk nothing compared to the total number of women you got to flirt with. With this type of attitude, you will act self-confident, independent and relaxed. Women appreciate this and it increases your chances of success.