Hint #1: Respect is everything.

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Hint #2: Be confident.

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Radiate confidence and satisfaction. In particular this will succeed if your own life - without women - is succesful and meaningful. If you succeed at this and are not dependent on your partner as your “main focus of your life” you will appear more confident and independent. Women like successful men who also have other passions than just the opposite sex. Loneliness, under any circumstance, is never a good basis for flirting. Because of this, it is very important to have male friends.

Hint #3: Don’t stress about the perfect conversation starter.

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There is no perfect introduction for a conversation. Whatever you use to initiate a chat with a woman could be optimal for any given moment. Just don’t use dumb pick-up lines or cheesy phrases like “Hey, did heaven lose an angel? Ah, must have lost two of them because when I look down I can see them in your shirt” Try to trigger a reaction that is like “Why not?” from the woman. In this case, a vague answer can be considered a success since she at least didn’t say “no” and your options are still open.

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Hint #4: You only get one shot.

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In any case act as if you’ll only get one chance to speak to this woman. If you don’t approach her, she’s as good as gone. You will likely never see that woman again. Dare to try, there is nothing to lose (Suggestion: “Excuse me for interrupting but I would never forgive myself if I let you go out of my life without even saying “Hello” to you”). With questions, you can only improve your chances. Make it clear to her how important it is to speak to a woman if there is only one opportunity!

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Hint #5: Don’t be desperate.

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NEVER act desperate or helpless. NEVER whimper, beg or nag for attention or sex. If you do, you’re putting yourself in the position of appearing like a little child and you will undermine not only your self esteem, but also the perception the woman has of you.

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Advertise yourself actively to a woman. Dont give up too early. Even after a long series of refusals, things can change. But always be aware of rule #1: The last “No” is always up to the woman.

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Define yourself as a “successfull flirt” in a new way. Treat it as a chance to gain new experiences. Dont let yourself be let down by a refusal from single women. See a “No” as a “useful experience,” “normal barrier” or just another step toward the finish. Assume that it will save you from a series of further disappointments.

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When you do hear a “no” shrug it off and definitely dont think anything to yourself such as “Things never work out for me.” Instead, develop new and helpful ways to view these situations. Consider, for example, if maybe the woman just had a “bad day”. Perhaps, her refusal will only make your day better by keeping you open to new possibilities further along in your day.

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Think of approaching a woman as if you were a salesman and youre “selling yourself”. Make a “number game” out of it and treat the facts as if you were a businessman: LIke you, a salesman will likely have to do several sales pitches before he obtains a successful sale. Think of the “big picture” the more you try, the better your chances are of succeeding.

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Dont put all your eggs in one basket. Flirt with several women. So, in the case of a refusal you avoid the danger of losing all potential women at once. Also, youre sparing yourself unnecessary nervousness. Its better to act outside of your feelings so that in any given case you risk nothing compared to the total number of women you got to flirt with. With this type of attitude, you will act self-confident, independent and relaxed. Women appreciate this and it increases your chances of success.