When your date doesn’t call you back, even after you leave a message on her answering machine, it doesnt mean that there is no interest on her side. Give her a second call, by the third call, don’t (todo: alleridngs) leave a message on her answering machine, because then you will be leaving the impression of a guy that is desperate. (”This guy is always calling me”). Leave short and clear messages. Say precisely what you want and suggest something. (Todo: durcksen sie nicht herum). Don’t call “only to chat”. Call when you have romantic messages or you want to set up a date. Keep the calls short. Laugh or smile when calling or leaving a message on the answering machine. She will notice this. NEVER call when you are in a bad mood about women in general.

Arrange dates within good timeframes. Don’t suggest them to early, but don’t wait for the last minute either. Plan most details of your date beforehand and keep this plan in mind. Comments like “I have no idea what we’re going to do” will not help you. Women like men that make decisions and have ideas. Present yourself like this without acting like “the boss”. The woman will see the way you treat your date as the way you will likely treat your life and ultimately, your women.

Don´t say things like “Whenever your want”. It sounds like you have nothing else to do in your life. Suggest certain and concrete times for your dates.

Say hello to all women. Give at least a friendly smile or a nice gesture. End flirting early enough when it still is fun. When saying good-bye remember to throw in a good-bye-compliment like “Sorry I have to go – but not without telling you how beautiful you are and how nice you look today”. The advantage of this type of compliment is that the immediate reaction doesn’t matter that much (you are leaving anyway) – but at least you sparked a flame with her. Start conversations by giving a compliment about particular article of clothing, jewelery, tattoos or anything else, and ask a question like “So, what’s the story behind this ring?”

Accept that there is now a guarantee for an immediate successful flirt. You will always find(!!!) women who react with silence, give you a strange, angry and scared look, give you unfriendly comments or seem to be extremly helpless. Don’t wait for situations where you feel positive that she will react positively. With that attitude, you could end up waiting forever. Just give it a try and let your life work for you. Otherwise you will just end up being stuck in the same rut as always.