Make it seem as though everything you do seems to flow naturally. Situations like that seem to happen at ease. When there is no effort, you feel at peace with the wold and relaxed. You can see how the date will end because you are satisfied with everything that will happen. If you succeed at doing this, you will appear very attractive.

Make decisions as much as possible. Doing this shows your date that you are in control of your life and that you know what you want. Of course you can respond to the desires of your date if she prefers a different decision. Comments like “I dont know, what do YOU want to do?” will make yourself unsure and very unattractive in the eyes of your date.

Radiate a sense of strong self-esteem and success. Practice being confident and relaxed at the same time until it becomes second nature to you. Convey the impression that you are interesting, sexy and attractive.

Instill a feeling of safeness and security, referring to the same topics from time to time (”How was work today?”). When a women feels safe in your presence you will also feel good. Give her your business card to show that you don’t want keep being anonymous. In any case avoid jokes that might offend her, for example, about a woman’s appearance, or about anything related to violence. 35. Be pleasant and sociable.
Laugh a lot and say “Hello” frequently. Play with ambiguous things. Ask a lot, but never interrogate your conversation partner. Describe feelings or situations full of the right emotions that will then trigger the appropiate feelings in your date.

Be patient with your love interests. Avoid unneccessary conflicts, women fight less than men. “Fights” don’t go well when romantic feelings are invovled. For example, long debates about feminism will not win a woman’s heart. When these “provocative” issues come up, show that you understand the point and suggest a different topic. Never Raise your voice!