Women like details and feel empowered by them. Enrich your appearance with details(e.g. with a nice watch, a hat or a tattoo). Flashy details can be a great way to initiate a conversation.

Clothing, hairstyle, tattoos, smile etc. – all of these enable you to present yourself in an attractive manner. Remember to only do this if you really mean it. (You should act authentic). Ask your male friends for feedback on your style. Don’t let your style only be affected by female feedback. However, you should never give a woman the feeling that she is necessarily to your self esteem.

Women might see the way you treat your car as a way you might treat her. Because of this, take good care of it and show pride in your car.

Show that an adult that lives there and NOT a chaotic teenager. Take care to keep clean (particulary in bed, bath and kitchen). Keep lights at an optimal setting (not too bright, not too dim). Remove all evidence of other girlfriends/women. Make sure that no unwanted guests will show up during your date. Put the answering machine to “mute”. Wouldn’t it be embarrasing listening to the voice of a women during your date?

(1) For at least 30 days pratice every day to say “Hello” or “Hi” to a strange woman walking by. Look into the woman´s face and smile while saying “Hello”. You will be surprised how much easier it will be for you to get into conversations with unknown women. (2) Make sure that your self-confidence isn’t dependent on the reassurance of a woman. Get a male circle of friends. Don’t let yourself get caught by the thought that men are “only using” women to have sex. Keep in mind that women also enjoy and desire sex. Never feel ashamed for being a man! Make it obvious to your date that she is also responsible for what is happening between you and her.