Stop trying to be mysterious. Be honest and up front. In the long run it never works because women barely ever acknowledge it. Instead, make your position clear. Women cherish that. This way you will understand what you each are looking for. It’s far better to avoid a situation where you have to explain yourself or have a woman expecting you to change for her.

Don’t let her know what lengths you had to go to in order to arrange the date. It will kill the mood for a lot of women. Romantic moments happen naturally. It’s better to make it seem like everything came about this way coincidentally and that you havent done anything to arrange the date.

Work on showing your personality in a way that benefits you. When you want a certain woman (e.g. with a certain style and look), you have to make sure your style is aligned with hers. Make your own style obvious (e.g. with clothes, appearance and self-confidence). Just be careful to not change too much while doing this.

Bear in mind that women care about their outside appearance. They often spend a lot of time with make-up and clothing choices. (e.g. shoes). Because of this, women also have an eye for this on people of the other sex. Position yourself at least with the following standards: Wear clothing that fits, is clean and ironed and has no defects. When buying clothes take the advice of a woman with taste (or an appropriate male friend). Dont save money for the wrong things. A single tasteful outfit can help with initiating a conversation.

1) Get yourself a haircut that fits you and keep your hair in good condition. 2) Remove ugly hairs from eyebrows, nose and ears. 3) Get yourself some tasteful glasses and keep them clean. 4) Keep your throat and nose free of phlegm and mucus. 5) Take care of your beard, if you have one. 6) Keep your lips soft. 7) Clean your teeth. Brush frequently.
Keep your skin smooth and soft. 9) Use suitable lotions and colognes so you always smell nice. Avoid bad breath by using mouthwash. Use peppermint candy or chewing gum.
10) Empty your pockets. Keep unnecessary keys and things at home. 11) Buy yourself a nice belt in a size that fits. 12) Don’t save money by buying cheap shoes and socks, spend the extra cash for nice ones – women have an eye for these things! 13) Radiate a strong “attitude”. Stand upright and walk confidently (using your stomach muscles). Don’t let your head hang. If you appear confident with your body posture and appearance, a few extra pounds won’t hurt your appearance.