Always attract attention to yourself, offer yourself up as a topic of conversation. For instance carry a giant teddybear with you, a flashy piece of jewellery or a tattoo – anything that can initiate a conversation. Offer to babysit a baby and walk around with it in a stroller. Don’t be surprised how much attention you will get from women!

While flirting, concentrate on a short term and reachable goal. For example, try to spark the flame and get her to agree to go on a date with you.

Make sure to keep women aware that you can be more than just a friend (otherwise they will put you straight into the “friend” only category).

Don’t expect that your date will do everything to make things more serious between you and her, or that she will always show up to a date. For situations like this, have other things to do, instead of sulking over the fact that your date has not shown up yet.

Never make yourself seem like the “listening friend” or her “quasi – therapist” , or “best friend”. Keep in mind you don’t have sex with your friends or therapists! Many women love to be swept away to a “problem free world”. “Therapists” are men that remind others of their problems. Being a “therapist” for a desired woman is equal to sexual suicide.