Always jump at the chance to flirt. Always be on the prowl for new opportunity. Feel responsible to always take the first step. Dont wait fort he woman to give you a sign(it’s not in a womans nature and they will rarely ever do this). By acting first, you’re act “strong” and “decided”. You will leave the impression of a man who is confident and in control of his life.

Avoid internal excuses such as “I have no time”, “I will make a fool of myself”, “I just cant do it”, “I don’t have sufficent knowledge to impress her”.
If you having doubts about yourself, get reassurance from your male friends “never from women!” to increase your self esteem.

Particulary make use of the little daily life situations (Elevators, Restaurants, Coffeeshop, Gym, etc.) to practice flirting. See flirting as a game. Don’t leave out a single woman.
Involve yourself in situations which make it easy to come in contact with women like cooking and yoga classes, dancing classes, volunteer associations (most times ran by women), kitchen departments in big department stores, hotel bars with businesswomen, internet cafes, seminars for personal development, parks where women walk the dog, courses or events where you can read your own poems.

Let the circumstances you’re in work for you. Use forced all-day-life-breaks in a creative way (e.g. while waiting at the airport or in a traffic jam). Flirt whenever it is possible. You can always at least manage a smile. Ask yourself how you can get the best out of the situation in order to results in the most fun.

Use classified ads and internet dating sites. Make the things clear and don’t ramble on too much. Again start by producing romantic feelings such as (”Is attraction not an incredible thing? Imagine relaxing in strong arms while you feel safe and cherished by a loving man”). Describe yourself physically without overstating. Its not nessesary to talk about all your “faults” at this time. Accentuate that you can handle deeper emotion (”… I am ready to open myself up to new emotional experiences.”). End the advertisement/profile with a clear invitation (”If any of this interests you, give me a call!